add async Retry __eq__ and __hash__ & fix ExponentialWithJitterBackoff __eq__

[terencehonles]

Description of change

This change fixes a typo in ExponentialWithJitterBackoff's __eq__ method from #3628, and allows async Retry objects to also support __eq__ and __hash__.

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