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Issue: total_friend_count meta was not updating correctly due to a strict type comparison between user_id (string) and friend_ids (integer).
Root Cause: The condition 'hide' === $type && in_array( $user_id, $friend_ids, true ) was failing because in_array was performing a strict type check (true flag), and $user_id was a string while friend_ids were integers.
Fix: Cast $user_id to integer before comparison to ensure the condition is satisfied.

- Added a filter to the friendship SQL query that excludes moderated/suspended users. This ensures accurate friendship counts when running the 'Repair total connections count for each member' tool from the admin panel, preventing incorrect counts for users with suspended friendships.

- Add migration code to fix my connection count and remove suspend user from follow table if any user is suspended

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