Add Lifecycle Hooks for Opening and Closing Handles During Configuration and Shutdown

[zbuchheit]

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Issue details

It would be beneficial to execute a hook that opens a handle during configuration and closes the handle during shutdown. This would be particularly useful for providers that require a sync or commit action upon closure.

Affected area/feature

Related: pulumi/pulumi#9780

[iwahbe]

I'm labeling as awaiting-upstream The issue cannot be resolved without action in another repository (may be owned by Pulumi). because we need a life-cycle hook from Pulumi to make this work reliably.