feat: change default to write parquet statistics

[deanm0000]

addresses #15586

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #15597 will not alter performance

_{Comparing deanm0000:write_stats_by_default (9df2ca1) with main (c8e26ca)}

Summary

✅ 22 untouched benchmarks

[deanm0000]

@ritchie46 here is the default to writing statistics PR. Hopefully there's just the one place on the rust side.

[stinodego]

This would be breaking. We should probably deprecate the previous behavior first, or if we deem this to be very small impact, we can just break it with 1.0.0.

[ritchie46]

Good consideration @stinodego , but I don't think this is breaking. It adds extra statistic to the file. But we are free to change encodings how we please normally to the parquet format as well. Your queries would still work as is. I think our semver limits to our API not our output formats.

I've seen this happening in pyarow's output as well. So I don't think this is very strange.

Thanks you @deanm0000. I will merge this, because of the above reasons. :)