pdms(playground, cluster): add name to start pdms

[HuSharp]

What problem does this PR solve?

What is changed and how it works?

after tikv/pd#8461, we can start PDms with name.
But startup previous pd which support ms before 8.3.0 will failure because of unkown flag

for 8.2.0

$ cat tidb-deploy/tso-3379/scripts/run_tso.sh
#!/bin/bash
set -e

# WARNING: This file was auto-generated. Do not edit!
#          All your edit might be overwritten!
DEPLOY_DIR=/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379

cd "${DEPLOY_DIR}" || exit 1
exec env GODEBUG=madvdontneed=1 bin/pd-server services tso \
    --backend-endpoints="http://10.2.7.79:2379" \
    --listen-addr="http://10.2.7.79:3379" \
    --advertise-listen-addr="http://10.2.7.79:3379" \
    --config=conf/tso.toml \
    --log-file="/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379/log/tso.log" 2>> "/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379/log/tso_stderr.log"

after ./tiup-cluster upgrade tidb-test v8.2.0 --tso-version v8.3.0 and with

tso_servers:
  - host:  10.2.7.79
    port: 3379
    name: "tso-0"

we can cat tidb-deploy/tso-3379/scripts

$ cat tidb-deploy/tso-3379/scripts/run_tso.sh
#!/bin/bash
set -e

# WARNING: This file was auto-generated. Do not edit!
#          All your edit might be overwritten!
DEPLOY_DIR=/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379

cd "${DEPLOY_DIR}" || exit 1
exec env GODEBUG=madvdontneed=1 bin/pd-server services tso \
    --name="tso-0" \
    --backend-endpoints="http://10.2.7.79:2379" \
    --listen-addr="http://10.2.7.79:3379" \
    --advertise-listen-addr="http://10.2.7.79:3379" \
    --config=conf/tso.toml \
    --log-file="/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379/log/tso.log" 2>> "/root/husharp/tidb-deploy/tso-3379/log/tso_stderr.log"

We need to keep compatible by changing pdms script

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Release notes:

NONE

[kaaaaaaang]

/lgtm

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• 2024-08-06 06:43:21.662823999 +0000 UTC m=+334331.529923088: ☑️ agreed by kaaaaaaang.

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