Re-enable jemalloc's background thread by default (#9813)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #9813

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #9812 ref #9722

Problem Summary:

See issue 9812

What is changed and how it works?

Re-enable jemalloc's background thread by default

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

Fix an issue that the memory may stay in high level after large amount of data ingested

[JaySon-Huang]

/test pull-integration-test

[CalvinNeo]

lgtm

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Timeline:

• 2025-02-11 04:28:16.105638891 +0000 UTC m=+330738.501860953: ☑️ agreed by JaySon-Huang.
• 2025-02-11 11:00:14.473559225 +0000 UTC m=+354256.869781286: ☑️ agreed by CalvinNeo.