*: improve deployment doc and toc

[lilin90]

What is changed, added or deleted? (Required)

• Improves some description and cross-references in Deploy a TiDB Cluster Using TiUP | TiDB Docs
  • Adds link of Scale a TiDB Cluster Using TiUP | TiDB Docs to the bottom section
  • Adds link of Best Practices for TiDB Security Configuration | TiDB Docs to the beginning section
• Updates wording

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• This PR is translated from: *: improve deployment doc and toc docs#19653
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• 2024-12-17 05:40:36.216789565 +0000 UTC m=+935426.305592103: ☑️ agreed by Oreoxmt.

[lilin90]

/approve

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-8.5: #19319.