[SPARK-47877][SS][CONNECT] Speed up test_parity_listener #4

Job	Run time
Run / Check changes	32s
Run / Run Docker integration tests	0s
Run / Build modules: core, unsafe, kvstore, avro, utils, network-common, network-shuffle, repl, launcher, examples, sketch, variant	3m 25s
Run / Protobuf breaking change detection and Python CodeGen check	59s
Run / Base image build	44s
Run / Build modules: api, catalyst, hive-thriftserver	3m 37s
Run / Run Spark on Kubernetes Integration test	59m 17s
Run / Build modules: mllib-local, mllib, graphx	3m 23s
Run / Build modules: streaming, sql-kafka-0-10, streaming-kafka-0-10, streaming-kinesis-asl, kubernetes, hadoop-cloud, spark-ganglia-lgpl, protobuf	4m 39s
Run / Java 17 build with Maven (ubuntu-latest)	38m 11s
Run / Run TPC-DS queries with SF=1	0s
Run / Build modules: yarn, connect	3m 27s
Run / Java 21 build with Maven (ubuntu-latest)	36m 47s
Run / Run Spark UI tests	21s
Run / Build modules: hive - slow tests	3m 52s
Run / Java 21 build with Maven (macos-14)	28m 44s
Run / Build modules: hive - other tests	3m 47s
Run / Build modules: sql - extended tests	3m 52s
Run / Build modules: sql - slow tests	2m 22s
Run / Build modules: sql - other tests	3m 59s
Run / Linters, licenses, dependencies and documentation generation	37m 49s
Run / Build modules: ${{ matrix.modules }}	0s
Run / Build modules: sparkr	0s
	3h 59m 47s

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