use peer reputation to compare current peers

[macfarla]

PR description

use reputation score to sort peers within EthPeers (bestPeerComparator)

Note in a few places in tests I've explicitly set the comparator to what was used before (uses chain height estimate) to avoid having to update a heap of tests that are dependent on the decision made by the comparator
ref #6968

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Locally, you can run these tests to catch failures early:

• unit tests: ./gradlew build
• acceptance tests: ./gradlew acceptanceTest
• integration tests: ./gradlew integrationTest
• reference tests: ./gradlew ethereum:referenceTests:referenceTests

[macfarla]

2 nodes off this PR vs 24.9.0 as control. 1 node taking much longer to get in sync so that is not a great endorsement

same node took longer to get to max peers