Fix Resize Issue of Fab with the Async Arena (AMReX-Codes#3663)

## Summary

Previously there was an issue with resizing Fabs using The_Async_Arena.
The issue was the previous allocation during resize might be done on a
different stream. This commit fixes the issue and makes the following
patterns work.

    FArrayBox tmp0(The_Async_Arena());
    FArrayBox tmp1(The_Async_Arena());
    FArrayBox tmp2;
    for (MFIter ...) {
        tmp0.resize(box,ncomp,The_Async_Arena());
        tmp1.resize(box,ncomp);
        tmp2.resize(box,ncomp,The_Async_Arena());
    }

## Additional background

AMReX-Astro/Castro#2677

## Checklist

The proposed changes:
- [x] fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
- [ ] add new capabilities to AMReX
- [ ] changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
- [ ] are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX
users
- [ ] include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

Src/Base/AMReX_Arena.H

@@ -157,6 +157,11 @@ public:
      */
     virtual void registerForProfiling (const std::string& memory_name);
 
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+    //! Is this GPU stream ordered memory allocator?
+    [[nodiscard]] virtual bool isStreamOrderedArena () const { return false; }
+#endif
+
     /**
     * \brief Given a minimum required arena size of sz bytes, this returns
     * the next largest arena size that will align to align_size bytes

Src/Base/AMReX_BaseFab.H

@@ -1631,6 +1631,9 @@ protected:
     Long truesize = 0L;         //!< nvar*numpts that was allocated on heap.
     bool ptr_owner = false;     //!< Owner of T*?
     bool shared_memory = false; //!< Is the memory allocated in shared memory?
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+    gpuStream_t alloc_stream{};
+#endif
 };
 
 template <class T>
@@ -1902,6 +1905,9 @@ BaseFab<T>::define ()
     this->truesize  = this->nvar*this->domain.numPts();
     this->ptr_owner = true;
     this->dptr = static_cast<T*>(this->alloc(this->truesize*sizeof(T)));
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+    this->alloc_stream = Gpu::gpuStream();
+#endif
 
     placementNew(this->dptr, this->truesize);
 
@@ -2003,6 +2009,9 @@ BaseFab<T>::BaseFab (BaseFab<T>&& rhs) noexcept
       dptr(rhs.dptr), domain(rhs.domain),
       nvar(rhs.nvar), truesize(rhs.truesize),
       ptr_owner(rhs.ptr_owner), shared_memory(rhs.shared_memory)
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+      , alloc_stream(rhs.alloc_stream)
+#endif
 {
     rhs.dptr = nullptr;
     rhs.ptr_owner = false;
@@ -2021,6 +2030,9 @@ BaseFab<T>::operator= (BaseFab<T>&& rhs) noexcept
         truesize = rhs.truesize;
         ptr_owner = rhs.ptr_owner;
         shared_memory = rhs.shared_memory;
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+        alloc_stream = rhs.alloc_stream;
+#endif
 
         rhs.dptr = nullptr;
         rhs.ptr_owner = false;
@@ -2062,7 +2074,11 @@ BaseFab<T>::resize (const Box& b, int n, Arena* ar)
         this->dptr = nullptr;
         define();
     }
-    else if (this->nvar*this->domain.numPts() > this->truesize)
+    else if (this->nvar*this->domain.numPts() > this->truesize
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+             || (arena()->isStreamOrderedArena() && alloc_stream != Gpu::gpuStream())
+#endif
+             )
     {
         if (this->shared_memory) {
             amrex::Abort("BaseFab::resize: BaseFab in shared memory cannot increase size");
@@ -2114,7 +2130,14 @@ BaseFab<T>::clear () noexcept
 
             placementDelete(this->dptr, this->truesize);
 
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+            auto current_stream = Gpu::Device::gpuStream();
+            Gpu::Device::setStream(alloc_stream);
+#endif
             this->free(this->dptr);
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+            Gpu::Device::setStream(current_stream);
+#endif
 
             if (this->nvar > 1) {
                 amrex::update_fab_stats(-this->truesize/this->nvar, -this->truesize, sizeof(T));

Src/Base/AMReX_GpuTypes.H

@@ -29,6 +29,7 @@ struct Dim1 {
 struct gpuStream_t {
     sycl::queue* queue = nullptr;
     bool operator== (gpuStream_t const& rhs) noexcept { return queue == rhs.queue; }
+    bool operator!= (gpuStream_t const& rhs) noexcept { return queue != rhs.queue; }
 };
 
 #endif

Src/Base/AMReX_PArena.H

@@ -38,6 +38,11 @@ public:
     [[nodiscard]] bool isDevice () const final;
     [[nodiscard]] bool isPinned () const final;
 
+#ifdef AMREX_USE_GPU
+    //! Is this CUDA stream ordered memory allocator?
+    [[nodiscard]] bool isStreamOrderedArena () const final { return true; }
+#endif
+
 #ifdef AMREX_CUDA_GE_11_2
 private:
     cudaMemPool_t m_pool;