upgrade macos version (#10974)

* upgrade to macos-latest

* force link
# Conflicts:
#	.github/actions/setup-postgres-macos/action.yml
#	.github/workflows/main.yml

.github/actions/setup-postgres-macos/action.yml

@@ -5,7 +5,9 @@ runs:
   steps:
     - shell: bash
       run: |
-        brew services start postgresql
+        brew install postgresql@16
+        brew link postgresql@16 --force
+        brew services start postgresql@16
         echo "Check PostgreSQL service is running"
         i=10
         COMMAND='pg_isready'

.github/workflows/main.yml

@@ -130,7 +130,7 @@ jobs:
           - python-version: 3.9
             os: windows-latest
           - python-version: 3.9
-            os: macos-12
+            os: macos-14
 
     env:
       TOXENV: integration

.github/workflows/test-repeater.yml

@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@ on:
         type: choice
         options:
           - 'ubuntu-latest'
-          - 'macos-12'
+          - 'macos-14'
           - 'windows-latest'
       num_runs_per_batch:
         description: 'Max number of times to run the test per batch.  We always run 10 batches.'
@@ -100,7 +100,7 @@ jobs:
 
         # mac and windows don't use make due to limitations with docker with those runners in GitHub
       - name: "Set up postgres (macos)"
-        if: inputs.os == 'macos-12'
+        if: inputs.os == 'macos-14'
         uses: ./.github/actions/setup-postgres-macos
 
       - name: "Set up postgres (windows)"