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+  <title>I’m Grateful for My work team</title>
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+<p>Joining my current company has been pretty great. Here are the things I’ve liked about it so far:</p>
+<ul>
+<li>people are kind.</li>
+<li>They’re open to each other’s ideas.</li>
+<li>They invite each other to lunch in big parties.</li>
+<li>They laugh</li>
+<li>They encourage each other</li>
+</ul>
+<p>It’s just a positive place. Where does this come from? It can only come from the top.</p>
+<p>Reading <a href="../book-review/thinking-fast-and-slow.html">Thinking, Fast and Slow</a>, there’s a strong correlation between creative thinking and happiness. Having read things like <a href="../book-review/elon-musk.html">Elon Musk</a> and <a href="../book-review/steve-jobs.html">Steve Jobs</a> and one of the conclusions in the Elon book is “working for jerks is perhaps a necessity to get their high level of thinking.” There’s also the set of people who don’t want to work like that - where they treat each other with kindness and respect.</p>
+<p>Here’s to my coworkers and those who created the work environment where people who are kind thrive.</p>
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+<p><img src="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/img/dalle-seaotter-beach-data-science.jpeg" class="preview-image img-fluid figure-img"></p>
+<figcaption class="margin-caption">My slack profile - we’re the seaotter team</figcaption>
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+<p>_________________________ <br> <br> <i><a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/about">Bryan</a> lives somewhere at the intersection of faith, fatherhood, and futurism and writes about <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/tech">tech</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/books">books</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/christianity">Christianity</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/gratitude">gratitude</a>, and <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/">whatever’s on his mind</a>. If you liked reading, perhaps you’ll also like subscribing: <br><br> </i><iframe src="https://embeds.beehiiv.com/106e21ff-1989-43d2-9bd7-d4a4c4404ab6?slim=true" data-test-id="beehiiv-embed" height="52" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" style="margin: 0; border-radius: 0px !important; background-color: transparent;"></iframe></p> ]]></description>
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+  <pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2024 23:03:55 GMT</pubDate>
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   <title>My Advice for New Career People</title>
   <dc:creator>Bryan Whiting</dc:creator>
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   <pubDate>Sat, 30 Mar 2024 22:34:42 GMT</pubDate>
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-  <title>Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents</title>
-  <dc:creator>Lindsay C. Gibson</dc:creator>
-  <link>https://www.bryanwhiting.com/book-review/adult-children-of-emotional-immature-parents.html</link>
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-<p>2024-04-01</p>
-<ul>
-<li>emotional work is hard work. Emotionally immature people feel like they don’t need</li>
-<li>Roles are sacred to emotional immature people: role of parent.</li>
-<li>Kids feel like they have to help solve their parents emotional problems but they can’t.</li>
-<li>They seek enmeshment, not intimacy</li>
-<li>emotional parents</li>
-<li>Driven parents</li>
-<li>passive parwnts</li>
-<li>healing dreams. Creates roles. Role-self vs true self. “If only I…” is a coping mechanism</li>
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-<p>2024-03-30</p>
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-<li>Don’t see their role in your problems.</li>
-<li>don’t tell you about stuff.</li>
-<li>Self referential vs self reflective</li>
-<li>Expressing feelings wasn’t condoned or supported.</li>
-<li>Crying stops when given emotional support. “I’ll give you something to cry about”</li>
-<li>Focuses on facts and dive deep in intellectual topics but not emotions</li>
-<li>Overemphasize physical health → we can feel as children a bond to those who took physical care of us but not emotional.</li>
-</ul>
-<p><img src="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/img/book-adult-children-of-emotional-immature-parents.jpeg" class="preview-image img-fluid"></p>
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-<p>_________________________ <br> <br> <i><a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/about">Bryan</a> lives somewhere at the intersection of faith, fatherhood, and futurism and writes about <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/tech">tech</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/books">books</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/christianity">Christianity</a>, <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/gratitude">gratitude</a>, and <a href="https://www.bryanwhiting.com/">whatever’s on his mind</a>. If you liked reading, perhaps you’ll also like subscribing: <br><br> </i><iframe src="https://embeds.beehiiv.com/106e21ff-1989-43d2-9bd7-d4a4c4404ab6?slim=true" data-test-id="beehiiv-embed" height="52" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" style="margin: 0; border-radius: 0px !important; background-color: transparent;"></iframe></p> ]]></description>
-  <category>book-review</category>
-  <guid>https://www.bryanwhiting.com/book-review/adult-children-of-emotional-immature-parents.html</guid>
-  <pubDate>Sat, 30 Mar 2024 13:44:39 GMT</pubDate>
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