refactor(s2n-quic-dc): reduce the number of `peer_addr` calls #5101

Job	Run time
env	5s
s2n-quic-qns (debug)	2m 31s
s2n-quic-qns (release)	6m 46s
bench	18m 7s
h3spec (s2n-tls)	14s
attack (udp)	5m 31s
interop (aioquic, s2n-quic)	18m 44s
h3spec (rustls)	14s
perf (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	1m 10s
interop (chrome, s2n-quic)	5m 33s
perf (s2n-quic-null, s2n-quic-null)	56s
interop (go-x-net, s2n-quic)	12m 42s
interop (kwik, s2n-quic)	14m 35s
interop (lsquic, s2n-quic)	13m 36s
interop (msquic, s2n-quic)	17m 15s
interop (mvfst, s2n-quic)	12m 23s
interop (neqo, s2n-quic)	16m 3s
interop (ngtcp2, s2n-quic)	15m 6s
interop (picoquic, s2n-quic)	16m 57s
interop (quic-go, s2n-quic)	13m 24s
interop (quiche, s2n-quic)	18m 22s
interop (quinn, s2n-quic)	14m 17s
interop (s2n-quic, aioquic)	18m 25s
interop (s2n-quic, go-x-net)	11m 49s
interop (s2n-quic, haproxy)	11m 18s
interop (s2n-quic, kwik)	13m 42s
interop (s2n-quic, lsquic)	12m 5s
interop (s2n-quic, msquic)	11m 52s
interop (s2n-quic, mvfst)	10m 22s
interop (s2n-quic, neqo)	13m 35s
interop (s2n-quic, nginx)	10m 57s
interop (s2n-quic, ngtcp2)	13m 36s
interop (s2n-quic, picoquic)	12m 23s
interop (s2n-quic, quic-go)	11m 12s
interop (s2n-quic, quiche)	11m 54s
interop (s2n-quic, quinn)	12m 46s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	13m 14s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic-rustls)	13m 9s
interop (s2n-quic, xquic)	5m 45s
interop (s2n-quic-rustls, s2n-quic)	13m 15s
interop (xquic, s2n-quic)	9m 25s
perf-report	16s
interop-report	13s
	7h 35m 44s

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