test: exclude custom tests on windows, bump memory on windows

[sobolk]

Description of changes

This PR:

• adds missing exclusion on code build (follow up on build(deps): bump aws-cdk-lib from 2.68.0 to 2.80.0 #12830 where it was done for CCI)
• bumps memory limit on windows (couple of tests were failing due to OOE)

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Report is 281 commits behind head on dev.
The diff coverage is 59.37%.

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[0618]

What's happening here?

[sobolk]

adding missing piece of eba5625 .
I.e. we disabled these on CCI but not CB.

[0618]

Why not using an even-bigger number?

[sobolk]

because we run multiple test workers on machine, therefore increasing in steps as needed, so the chance they'll consume all available memory on VM is less.

[0618]

LGTM