[enhancement](tablet-meta) Avoid be coredump due to potential race condition when updating tablet cumu point

[TangSiyang2001]

What problem does this PR solve?

Problem Summary:

Currently, when setting tablet's cumu point, aseert fail will happend if new point is less than local value, resulting BE coredump.

This could happend when race condition happend:

1. thread A try to sync rowset
2. thread A fetch cumu point from ms
3. thread B update cumu point(like sc/compaction),commit to ms after 2. and set be tablet cumu point before 4.
4. thread A try to set cumu point seen before and meet the assertion, coredump.

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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TeamCity be ut coverage result:
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Line Coverage: 29.79% (85198/285972)
Region Coverage: 28.83% (43690/151525)
Branch Coverage: 25.37% (22197/87482)
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[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 39775 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 65fb04d169f4112e54f32270610bad830993d6b8, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
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q4	10532	771	777	771
q5	7604	2697	2638	2638
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Total hot run time: 39775 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
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q20	2079	1891	1882	1882
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Total cold run time: 72256 ms
Total hot run time: 60061 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 196257 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 65fb04d169f4112e54f32270610bad830993d6b8, data reload: false

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query34	971	538	505	505
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[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 32.97 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 65fb04d169f4112e54f32270610bad830993d6b8, data reload: false

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query31	2.86	0.38	0.39
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Total cold run time: 106.27 s
Total hot run time: 32.97 s

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.