Update tonic requirement from 0.9 to 0.10 #18242

Job	Run time
Check cargo fmt	1m 0s
cargo check	9m 49s
cargo test (mac)	28m 6s
Verify MSRV	14m 13s
Verify Vendored Code	1m 12s
cargo test (win64)	34m 47s
cargo test doc (amd64)	18m 14s
clippy	4m 19s
cargo doc	5m 7s
cargo test (amd64)	25m 29s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	23m 28s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	5m 3s
cargo examples (amd64)	8m 56s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	5m 49s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	3m 49s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	36m 55s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 37s
check configs.md is up-to-date	3m 57s
	3h 52m 50s

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