add CUDA 12.3 to the CI #4741

Job	Run time
clang-format	19s
linux_clang-14_cuda-11.2_debug_analysis	13m 37s
windows_cl-2022_debug_analysis	15m 37s
macos_xcode-14.2_debug_analysis	28m 0s
linux_gcc-12_debug_analysis	14m 2s
macos_xcode-14.2_release	16m 45s
macos_xcode-14.3.1_debug	18m 21s
windows_cl-2022_release	17m 57s
windows_cl-2022_debug	13m 8s
linux_gcc-9_debug	14m 47s
linux_gcc-12_release_c++20	13m 35s
linux_gcc-13_debug	10m 40s
linux_clang-10_release	9m 48s
linux_clang-12_release	30m 36s
linux_clang-13_debug	7m 36s
linux_clang-16_debug_ubsan	10m 30s
linux_clang-16_debug_tsan	11m 28s
	4h 6m 46s

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