add CMake presets #4684

Job	Run time
clang-format	14s
linux_clang-14_cuda-11.2_debug_analysis	16m 31s
windows_cl-2022_debug_analysis	18m 9s
macos_xcode-14.2_debug_analysis	25m 22s
linux_gcc-12_debug_analysis	14m 50s
macos_xcode-13.2.1_debug	56s
macos_xcode-14.2_release	22m 41s
macos_xcode-14.3.1_debug	7m 34s
windows_cl-2022_release	23m 23s
windows_cl-2022_debug	18m 12s
linux_gcc-9_debug	14m 10s
linux_gcc-12_release_c++20	14m 25s
linux_gcc-13_debug	13m 1s
linux_clang-10_release	9m 47s
linux_clang-12_release	30m 40s
linux_clang-13_debug	8m 49s
linux_clang-16_debug_ubsan	9m 44s
linux_clang-16_debug_tsan	11m 47s
	4h 20m 15s

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