make the getting started page far less condescending

wiki/introduction/getting-started/en.md

@@ -36,11 +36,9 @@ Minecraft modding can get complicated. We aim to provide a resource to help you
 fundamental modding concepts. However, there are some things that we can't do and
 expect you to learn on your own.
 
-Asking questions properly, whether it is on our forum or on Discord, is an essential
-skill to have. Never be afraid to ask questions, we're always willing to help, and we
-don't judge.
+Never be afraid to ask questions, we're always willing to help, and we don't judge.
 
-When asking questions, try to include the necessary context in your first message, and [do not ask to ask](https://dontasktoask.com/). State your problem, what you have already tried to solve it, and how those attempts failed. Make sure to avoid the [XY problem](https://xyproblem.info/) by not only asking for help for one specific part of a solution to your problem, but also stating the actual problem you are trying to solve. When debugging, include your `latest.log` and when your game crashes, a crash log. Additionally, full access to your source code can be really helpful, ideally uploaded to a website such as GitHub.
+When asking questions, try to include the necessary context in your first message. State your problem, what you have already tried to solve it, and how those attempts failed. Giving full context to your problem will help others solve it faster. When debugging, include your `latest.log` and when your game crashes, a crash log. Additionally, full access to your source code can be really helpful, ideally uploaded to a website such as GitHub.
 
 You can ask development related questions in our [Forum](https://forum.quiltmc.org/), as well as in the [mod-dev-help](https://discord.com/channels/817576132726620200/1047429688521396325) forum channel in our [Discord](https://discord.quiltmc.org/)
 
@@ -50,7 +48,7 @@ examples of how to do things in open source repositories and sometimes "steal" c
 Open source repositories are there for you to learn from and use, don't be afraid of
 them!
 
-There are many topics in modding where you quickly will find yourself at a point where there are no tutorials to help. In those cases you'll usually either have to understand the relevant Minecraft code, or look at other mods and see how they got similar things done.
+There are many topics in modding where you may quickly find there are many topics in modding lacking relevant tutorials. In those cases you may have to read the relevant Minecraft code, or look at other mods and see how they implemented similar ideas, methods or solutions.
 If you want to look into the Minecraft source code, run the `genSourcesWithVineflower` Gradle task in the `fabric` category or open any Minecraft source file and click the download sources button in IntelliJ IDEA.
 
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