questions on validation and early stop

[k1e3v1i4n]

hello,
when i trained the model with the PSM data, i found that it is difficult to escape from early stop.
is it not easy to get the best vali loss1 score and vali loss2 score at the same time so that training process stop so early?
vali loss1 score= -rec_loss + AssDiss
vali loss2 score= -rec_loss - AssDiss