Abstract NavLink logic into a reusable useNavLink hook

[willhoney7]

I find myself replicating the NavLink isActive, isPending logic in various places in my codebase. Sometimes I want to indicate a pending navigation, or whether a path is active without actually rendering a link. It would be great if the NavLink logic was abstracted into an exported useNavLink hook that consumers could use.

I think this is a pretty simple change. In fact, the PR to do this exact thing was created last year. Can we merge that PR? #10183

Thanks!

[willhoney7]

Ah, realized this is a duplicate of #10224