Replace ValueOrDie with status check

[jackylee-ch]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
Currently we use ValueOrDie to check the status, such as LazyBatchIterator.AdvanceTo, and it will directly hang up the current process if there is an exception caused bad status. However, in many cases, it is sufficient to just throw an exception rather than hang up the process, such as the FetchFailedException, which means fetch block failed from other executor. And for Spark, the hanging of the executor process is much more serious than throwing exception, because this will lead to a large number of task recalculations, which may lead to more serious problems.

Describe the solution you'd like
Change the ValueOrDie to status check, and if status not ok, an expression is ok to thrown.