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<title>Season One Finale</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Join us as we sip coffee, laugh through late-night snacks, and discuss how the podcast deepened our friendship, surprised us, and brought happiness.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>The hosts celebrate their 18th episode and reflect on their journey. They discuss how the podcast unexpectedly strengthened their friendship, share feedback from listeners, and tease the idea of inviting guests for a fresh twist in the next season. The hosts are taking a break but promise to return with more happiness insights and a sprinkle of AI magic for episode titles.</p><p>If you're eager to join the conversation, reach out via email or a personal message. Stay tuned for more happy vibes!</p>]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[<p>The episode begins with Nikita expressing his confusion about the meaning of love, a sentiment shared by many. Vasily, ever pragmatic, joins in, pondering whether love can be truly defined. They discuss various types of love, from romantic to platonic, and even touch on the concept of love as an action rather than a state. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and question common perceptions, making it a relatable and engaging listen for anyone who's ever wondered about the complexity of love.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href=" https://www.greecehighdefinition.com/blog/9-different-types-of-love-according-to-the-ancient-greeks">9 Different Types of Love According to the Ancient Greeks</a> by GreeceHighDefinition</p></li><li><p>Summary of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Brave-New-World">Brave New World</a>, book by Aldus Huxley</p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Selfish Altruism</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Ever wondered if being too helpful could be a problem? Listen to Vasily and Nikita as they discuss the pitfalls of altruism, the concept of karma, and the psychological effects of our actions on our perception of the world.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Is helping others all about them, or is there a sneaky bit of self-interest involved? Vasily and Nikita jump into this debate, tossing around ideas and laughs as they try to figure out if we're naturally nice or just looking for that karma boost. The conversation may make you wonder about the last time you lent a hand.</p><p>As the episode unfolds, things get even more interesting. The duo dives into the brainy side of being kind, wondering if our grey matter has a say in our good deeds. They keep it light and engaging, mixing brain talk with their playful banter. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a journey through the intriguing twists and turns of why we do what we do for others. It's perfect for anyone from curious minds to everyday heroes, offering a fresh take on the age-old question of why we help others.</p><p>Tune in for a dose of fun, facts, and maybe a new perspective on the power of giving.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul> <li> <p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/why-are-you-doing-this/">Nikita’s blog post: Doing the Right Thing for the Right Reasons</a></p> </li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Meditate or Medicate</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Can mindfulness alone lead to happiness or does human biochemistry demand more tangible interventions? Vasily and Nikita discuss different paths to peace of mind.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>If you could take a pill to make you happier and healthier, would you? What about sitting alone in silence for 10 days straight - sound fun? Maybe not! </p><p>In this candid discussion, Vasily and Nikita break down the pros and cons of using hardcore biohacking versus more spiritual practices like meditation to achieve next-level well-being.</p><p>They also break down the science and psychology around what really impacts "happy chemicals" in the brain. From dopamine detoxes to longevity-obsessed gurus, no stone is left unturned in this fascinating clash between spirituality and science on the quest to optimize life.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Book <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Illuminated-Meditation-Integrating-Mindfulness/dp/1501156985">The Mind Illuminated</a> by John Yates, Matthew Immergut, and Jeremy Graves </p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.dhamma.org/en-US/about/goenka">Mr. S.N. Goenka</a>, revered teacher of Vipassana Meditation</p></li><li><p>Dave Asprey’s <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://daveasprey.com/how-to-make-your-coffee-bulletproof-and-your-morning-too/">Bulletproof Coffee – How-to</a></p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://trydoxo.ai/blog/rules-of-dopamine-detox">The Ultimate 10 Rules of Dopamine Detox</a> by Dante Kim </p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Unfollowing for Happiness</title>
<itunes:subtitle>The downsides of social media vs. The benefits of digital connection. Vasily and Nikita share tips and tactics for cutting back on doom scrolling.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Remember when Facebook was just about connecting with friends? Now, it's all about fighting the urge to scroll endlessly.</p><p>Join Vasily and Nikita as they explore their attempts to quit Instagram (spoiler: it's tough!) and laugh at their old social media selves. Nikita provides step-by-step instructions for completely detaching from social media. Vasily warns against the dangers of social media technologies that target our attention. Plus, the hosts get real about the FOMO and how it messes with our heads.</p><p>Tune in to hear their take on the evolving digital landscape, and maybe even get inspired to join them on this less-traveled path away from constant connectivity.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Nikita’s blog post<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/the-right-to-be-wrong/"> ‘The Right to Be Wrong’</a> </p></li><li><p>Nikita’s blog post <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/unsubscribe-exclamation-point/">‘Unsubscribe’</a></p></li><li><p>Book by Cal Newport: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calnewport.com/writing/">‘Digital Minimalism’ and ‘Deep Work’ (and more) </a></p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.thesocialdilemma.com/">The Social Dilemma Documentary</a></p><p></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Mapping Personalities</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Do labels like introvert and extrovert or astrological signs truly define us? Vasily and Nikita debate the merit of personality types and classifications.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Introvert, extrovert, ENFJ, Virgo - do personality types really capture the full essence of who you are? Vasily and Nikita are skeptical. They argue that tricky terms like "introvert" don't even come close to describing whole, complex human beings. Vasily thought he was an introvert for years until he realized he also had plenty of extroverted qualities. He and Nikita point out that people are multifaceted - any given individual can't be neatly boxed into a single category.</p><p>Are personality quizzes like Myers-Briggs real science or just for fun? The hosts of the show say labels like "introvert" or "Leo" barely scratch the surface of who people really are. Vasily thought he was introverted until he realized he's also extroverted sometimes. So he and Nikita doubt these buzzwords describe real, complex individuals.</p><p>While labels can help understand others, don't let them box you in! Though tests are popular distractions, Vasily and Nikita don't think they truly map your whole personality. Tune in as the hosts debate: do we uncover truths or just limit ourselves when we try to define people so neatly?</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12818114-50-popular-beliefs-that-people-think-are-true">Book 50 Popular Beliefs That People Think Are True</a> by Guy P. Harrison </p></li><li><p>16Personalities: Get a “freakishly accurate” description of who you are <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.16personalities.com/">with this online test </a></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 27 Nov 2023 23:59 UTC</pubDate>
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<title>Breaking Bonds</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Ending relationships can be painful but sometimes vital. Vasily and Nikita discuss times when they cut ties and how to know when enough is enough.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Vasily and Nikita tackle the delicate topic of ending relationships. The conversation is sparked by a personal story of a road trip that resulted in a permanent falling out with another couple. This real-life example sets the stage for a broader discussion on the challenging decisions of cutting ties, especially when influenced by clashing political views and divergent worldviews in today's divisive climate.</p><p>Throughout the episode, the hosts engage in an introspective debate on the balance between self-preservation and the moral responsibility of staying connected. They ponder the fine line between creating a protective echo chamber and the necessity of distancing oneself for mental well-being. True to the podcast's nature, their exchange is raw and honest, mirroring the struggle between the human desire for connection and the essential act of setting boundaries. This episode of "Happy Maybe" resonates with the harsh reality that sometimes, ending relationships, however painful, is crucial for personal growth and happiness.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2023 17:53 UTC</pubDate>
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<title>The Life Coaching Minefield</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Nikita dislikes the coaching industry, but Vasily sees pros if the coaching raises energy and provides accountability. They discuss how to vet so-called gurus, and debate paid versus freely shared wisdom.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Nikita thinks most folks selling themselves as life coaches just want your cash. But Vasily says some coaches can help you get motivated to improve your life. Nikita warns about social media influencer types who act like gurus but don’t really know you. Vasily thinks hiring a coach can work if they get you taking action and hold you accountable.</p><p>They tell stories of coaches who were helpful and others who just talked big without delivering. In the end, Nikita and Vasily agree you need to be smart about who you take advice from. Not everyone who seems ultra confident has the answers. The trick is finding a mentor who calls you to be your best self, not just tells you what you want to hear.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Tim Ward’s YouTube Channel<strong> </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@TimothyWard">https://www.youtube.com/@TimothyWard</a></p></li><li><p>Pieter Levels on X (Twitter) <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/levelsio">https://twitter.com/levelsio</a></p></li><li><p>Darren Silver <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.darrensilver.earth/">https://www.darrensilver.earth/</a></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Oct 2023 14:03 UTC</pubDate>
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<title>Anger Mismanagement</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Vasily and Nikita get real about anger, sharing times they’ve lost their cool and debating if blowing off steam can actually lead to more chill. If you allow yourself to feel rage now and then, will it bring you Zen or just make you angrier?</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>During their discussion about anger and happiness, Vasily and Nikita get into a lively debate. They share personal stories about anger, revealing how it can affect people's behavior and emotions. The hosts discuss situations where anger emerged unexpectedly, like when a cab driver took a wrong route, and how people reacted. They examine the challenges of managing anger healthily, especially in today's society, where expressing anger can be challenging.</p><p>Vasily and Nikita also share their thoughts on the fine line between justified anger and destructive outbursts, emphasizing the importance of understanding and acknowledging this complex emotion. Throughout the episode, they touch on the discomfort and unease that often accompany anger and ponder the limited outlets available for expressing it.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.breakbarnyc.com/ ">Break Bar NYC</a></p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.ragecagenyc.com/">The Rage Cage in Brooklyn</a></p><p></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 16 Oct 2023 19:33 UTC</pubDate>
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<title>Changing Through Therapy</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Vasily and Nikita explain that therapy isn't about being crazy and that finding a therapist you trust is important. It's a good listen for anyone thinking about giving it a try.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Vasily and Nikita discuss therapy. They talk about why people might consider doing it as Vasily shares his personal journey trying therapy for the first time. They describe different therapeutic modalities, including Internal Family Systems (IFS). They talk about how IFS views individuals as having different inner "parts" or facets, each with its own role and voice, and how this approach can be liberating as it removes perceived judgment.</p><p>The episode emphasizes that therapy isn't about dealing with being "crazy" but self-improvement and seeking support when needed. Vasily explains why he decided to give therapy a try. They especially highlight the importance of finding a therapist you can trust.</p><p>It's a good listen for anyone curious about therapy or thinking about giving it a try.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0141842/">The Sopranos</a> – American crime drama TV series (IMDB)</p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt15677150/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1">Shrinking</a> – American sitcom series (IMDB)</p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ifs-institute.com/ ">Internal Family Systems (IFS) official website</a> </p></li><li><p>The book <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/No-Bad-Parts-Restoring-Wholeness-ebook/dp/B096NHMV2R ">"No Bad Parts" by Dr. Schwartz</a></p></li><li><p>Nikita's blog post <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/above-all-else-we-want-to-be-understood/">'Above All Else, We Want to Be Understood'</a></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 2 Oct 2023 10:59 UTC</pubDate>
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<title>Tangled in Honesty</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Vasily brought up a topic that caught Nikita off-guard: the concept of radical honesty and how it affects relationships</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Vasily threw Nikita a curveball with a topic that got him thinking. They dove into the unruly world of radical honesty and how it can mess with our relationships. Nikita brought up this idea of "right speech" from Buddhism, which caused Vasily to reflect.</p><p>Without intending to, the two friends turned the episode into an example of how radical honesty can be practiced since Nikita wasn’t a fan of how Vasily introduced the topic. Behind the scenes, they had to have a follow-up conversation ensuring their friendship was still strong after this little disagreement. </p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_48_Laws_of_Power">Book 48 Laws of Power</a> (Wikipedia) </p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.learnreligions.com/right-speech-450072 ">Right Speech</a> (on 'Learn Religions') </p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noble_Silence ">Noble Silence in Buddhism</a> (Wikipedia) </p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://circlinginstitute.com/ ">The practice of Circling</a></p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNA5qTTxFFA">Intro to Internal Family Systems</a> (YouTube) </p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>When Sadness Sets In</title>
<itunes:subtitle>The hosts explore the intricate relationship between sadness and personal growth, sharing practical methods to cope with unexplained sorrow and uncertainty.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, the hosts have a conversation about the experience of feeling sad without any apparent reason. They discuss practical methods to cope with sadness, such as going for a walk, watching something enjoyable, talking to someone, or engaging in physical activity like going to the gym. They also mention actively meditating on negative emotions, allowing yourself to feel them without judgment.</p><p>Drawing from their own experiences, the hosts reflect on the power of self-awareness and recommend books like "Letting Go" and "Busting Loose from the Money Game" as resources for understanding and processing emotions. They emphasize the importance of embracing vulnerability and accepting the natural ebb and flow of emotions in life. They suggest finding solace in uncertainty. They point out that it's okay not always to be happy but to instead embrace and acknowledge their emotions as part of their personal growth journey.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Book “Letting Go” by David R. Hawkins <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://a.co/d/40lfrcR">https://a.co/d/40lfrcR</a> (Amazon)</p></li><li><p>Book “Busting Loose From The Money Game” by Robert Scheinfeld <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://a.co/d/cY6LzhO">https://a.co/d/cY6LzhO</a> and The Process (Tools: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.robertscheinfeld.com/Scheinfeld-Drilling-Tools.pdf">http://www.robertscheinfeld.com/Scheinfeld-Drilling-Tools.pdf</a>)</p></li><li><p>Dr. Joe Dispenza <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.drjoedispenza.com">https://www.drjoedispenza.com</a> </p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<itunes:subtitle>The hosts dive into the connection between creativity and happiness, discussing the impact of creative outlets on personal fulfillment</itunes:subtitle>
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<title>When Success Isn't Enough</title>
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<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Happy Maybe, Vasily and Nikita engage in a freeform conversation about the complexities of finding happiness and satisfaction in a seemingly "perfect" life. They explore the pressures of constantly striving for self-improvement and question whether pursuing professional success always leads to happiness. They also delve into the dilemma of whether to push for a salary raise or accept the status quo. Join them for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges our assumptions about what truly matters in life.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>On <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2020/09/joseph-henrich-explores-weird-societies/ ">WEIRD societies</a></p></li><li><p>Nikita’s <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/irreconcilable-differences/">blog post on toxic positivity</a></p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Inspiration vs. Discipline</title>
<itunes:subtitle>The hosts engage in a freeform conversation about the connection between inspiration, discipline, and our pursuit of happiness.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Happy Maybe, Vasily and Nikita engage in a freeform conversation about the connection between inspiration, discipline, and our pursuit of happiness. Nikita shares how his recent trip to Costa Rica inspired him, but his motivation has since waned. Vasily discusses his personal struggle with maintaining a consistent meditation practice and suggests reading books as a more mindful alternative to mindlessly scrolling through social media.</p><p>Tune in to this episode and join the freeform conversation between two friends as they share their insights on what drives us towards happiness.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Old Chinese tale <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_old_man_lost_his_horse ">“The Story of the Old Man and His Horse"</a> (that the hosts called “The Maybe Tale”)</p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/internal-family-systems-therapy">Internal Family Systems Therapy</a> (article)</p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Cultural Crossroads and Quest For Belonging</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Exploring the challenges and triumphs of adapting to life in a new culture; the journey of immigration, and the pursuit of a sense of belonging.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of Happy Maybe, Vasily and Nikita explore the challenges of having an identity as an immigrant. They delve into the complex process of cultural integration and discuss how it can be a never-ending struggle that lasts for years. Drawing from their own experiences, Vasily and Nikita share insights on how to navigate the ups and downs of adapting to a new culture and finding a sense of belonging.</p><p>Tune in to this freeform conversation between two friends for a heartfelt and thought-provoking discussion on what it means to have an identity shaped by immigration.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gogol_Bordello">Gogol Bordello (band)</a> </p></li><li><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/gogolbordello">Gogol Bordello YouTube channel</a> </p></li></ul>]]></description>
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<title>Less-Than-Ideal Choices</title>
<itunes:subtitle>Vasily and Nikita explore the complexities of making tough choices in a world of competing perspectives in the debut episode.</itunes:subtitle>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In the debut episode of Happy Maybe (which was still an unnamed podcast at the time of the recording), Vasily and Nikita dive into a nuanced conversation about the difficulties of taking sides when faced with two less-than-ideal options. From navigating personal relationships to grappling with divisive political issues, they explore the complexities of making tough choices.</p><p>Join them for a gripping conversation on how to find a way forward in a world of competing perspectives.</p><p><strong>Links:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Nikita’s blog <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://chepanov.com/">https://chepanov.com/</a> </p></li><li><p>Peace Pilgrim (book) <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.peacepilgrim.org/translations">https://www.peacepilgrim.org/translations</a> </p></li></ul>]]></description>
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