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Sex for over 30 & HLCommunity are fun subs to read. David Buss's interview on Sex, Dating, Relationships, and Sex Differences was fascinating.

Notes

• Don't have PIV sex immediately as it can be painful and unpleasant. Foreplay is important. Be gentle. Can give her an orgasm without any PIV involved easily.
• Going off birth control often increases sex drive. But increases chances of conception dramatically.
• There is no such thing as vaginal orgasm, only clitoral.
• Female birth control often has negative side effects on the body. Ideally research into male contraception that's not just condoms/vasectomy. IUD seems like the best least problematic contraceptive method.
• Take foreplay slower. It can happen early on and at any part of the day through compliments or light touches. The key to having a nice sexual experience is when everyone is fully relaxed, nothing is rushed and everything feels natural and not forced. Communicate everything.
• Women's desire usually drives from a story being played out.
• Skyn have the best condoms
• Always satisfy your partner first before finishing yourself.

Links

• Dipsea - Sexy audio stories that set the mood and spark your imagination.
• OMG Yes - Ways women actually find pleasure. (Reddit)
• Why Sex? Biologists Find New Explanations (HN)
• OnlyFans, Influencers, And The Politics Of Selling Nudes During A Pandemic (2020) (HN)
• HN: Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows (2020)
• Miley Cyrus - Call Her Daddy Interview (2020)
• The ungentle joy of spider sex (2020) (HN)
• Sexual Health Wiki
• Sex Over 30 Wiki
• Porn Really Screwed My Perception of Sex (2021)
• Extraordinary Passion - The Art and Science of Modern Tantric Sex. (Welcome Post)
• Better Sex 101
• The Dirty Normal - Better sex. Powered by science.
• Coral - Better sex through a mix of science, stories and exercises.
• Why Are Fewer Young Adults Having Casual Sex? (2021) (HN) (Reddit)
• Sex as a means for validation vs. Sex as way towards intimacy (2021)
• Women's loss of desire and the pleasure gap (2021)
• Women who found it difficult to orgasm during sex but “worked it out”, what’s your trick? (2021)
• New partner. How to get the most pleasure from his shape/size of penis?
• A Beginner's Guide to Good, Great, and Amazing Sex
• Fascinating G-Spot Orgasm Thread
• My Tips on Giving Oral to Women (31M)
• Favorite Sex Positions (2021)
• Best lube for sensitive genitals (2021)
• Healthy amount of sex per week in a relationship
• Sex Positions List
• Sexual compatibility, what is it?
• Planned Parenthood - Provides reproductive health care in the United States and globally.
• OUI - Birth Control Designed for You.
• How-to ride on top
• What are some common misconceptions about lesbian sex?
• Additions to house that improve sex life (2021)
• Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic Book
• Guide to Getting It On Book
• Women's Anatomy Of Arousal Book
• Good resources on learning the pleasures of sex (2021)
• Mirena appreciation post (2021)
• What makes sex with a guy go from good to mind blowing? (2021)
• On Incels, Dead Bedrooms and the Hard Problems of Loneliness (2021) (HN)
• Movies with lots of sexual energy? (2021)
• The macho sperm myth - Idea that millions of sperm are on an Olympian race to reach the egg is yet another male fantasy of human reproduction.
• First time sex tips? (2021)
• Taking sex differences in personality seriously (2019) (HN)
• What are some ways to experiment sexually when you are in a committed relationship? (2021)
• Things I can do to make sex go from great to mind-blowing? (2021)
• Swingers Reddit Wiki
• STIs explained (2021)
• Modern Fertility - The fertility hormone test you can take at home.
• Whats your signature move your ex probably still fantasizes about? (2021)
• Alan Watts - On Sexuality
• Что нужно знать о сексе с женщинами
• HEX Condoms (Reddit)
• What are things that woman find sexy that men rarely do?
• Is G-spot actually just an internal part of clitoris?
• Exploring Queerness By Switching Up My Vibrators (2021)
• Future of Sex - Latest news on how tech is expanding sexuality. (Twitter)
• Scarleteen - Sex Education For The Real World.
• How do girls cum?
• Tips on fingering (2021)
• Movies with lots of sex but they are actually good (2021)
• The Mating Strategies of Earthlings (2021)
• Arousing TV series/how-tos? (No porn)
• Список интимных товаров
• Overly analytical guide to escorting (2021) (HN)
• What advice have you gotten that has changed your sex life? (2021)
• Hamilton Morris: The Relationship Between Sex and Psychedelics
• What is the biggest reason people are having so little sex?
• Ringing The Devil’s Doorbell: A Light-Hearted, Practical Guide (2021)
• Prostitute interview - Exotic (2021)
• ТРЕД про внутриматочную спираль, экстренную контрацепцию, мини-пили, НоваРинг и Implanon NXT (Reddit)
• Power imbalances and sex (2016) (HN)
• What sexual bucket list item lived up to expectations?
• One thing you learned about relationships/sex you wish you knew sooner
• What are your best "Sexual Mechanics" tricks?
• Stronger orgasm resources
• Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski (2015)
• What is your trick of giving the best head to your gf?
• Anatomy Structure and Function of the Male Genitals
• What are some sexual things you would recommend people try?
• HLCommunity Reddit
• The Internal Clitoris (Reddit)
• Sex positive resources for adult male
• Choosy Eggs May Pick Sperm for Their Genes, Defying Mendel’s Law
• MojoUpgrade - Quiz is designed to help you - as a couple - communicate better about your intimate fantasies.
• Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex? (HN)
• What is the appeal in being choked during sex?
• 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do
• Sex Work: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (HBO) (2022)
• Contraceptive pill for males is 99% effective in preventing pregnancy (2022) (HN)
• Vaginal Orgasms
• One thing that changed your sex life forever?
• Mr Lucky POV - Austen Summers Podcast (2021)
• David Buss: Sex, Dating, Relationships, and Sex Differences (2022)
• The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by David Buss
• How your phone documents your abortion experience
• Andrew Huberman explains sex to Lex Fridman
• Giving girls orgasm with just PIV
• Men of Reddit, what’s something most guys like during sex but don’t want to admit?
• Various condoms thread
• The Fascinating Fertilization Process
• Men with vasectomy! How did it effect your sex life? (2022)
• Sex is going out of fashion? (HN)
• Tips to eat her out
• Is sex with a condom really that bad?
• Why are sex workers forced to wear a financial scarlet letter? (2022) (HN)