[SUGGESTION] 1.12.1 clients don't get primary display properly for resolution/refresh rate options

[goudekid]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
1.12.1 clients don't rely on the primary display property to get the list of resolutions/refresh rates to show in video options- I'm not entirely sure what it DOES do, maybe just calls EnumDisplayMonitors or EnumDisplayDevices and chooses the first index and calls it good. But this means that users with multiple displays and a main display with ultrawide/4k/high refreshrate display and an unlucky enum ordering are unable to access their preferred resolution/refresh rate.

Describe the solution you'd like
Change how the resolution list and refresh rates in the video settings are populated, and base them on primary display.

Describe alternatives you've considered
Currently, the only consistent fix has been to disconnect all other displays physically, restart my pc, then launch the game. (I have 4 total so this is a huge pain.) Many users report editing edid value with CRU worked for them, though this didn't work for me at least.

Additional context
I'm willing to put a $100 bounty on this feature, payable via paypal or venmo upon delivery, as I've been cursing this issue for years now...