LazyReference or Reference(lazy=True)

[jesusch]

Feature request

Context

Adding a Reference to a Model currently always looks up that reference
This is very time consuming and not always wanted

Solution

Having the possibility to define a Ref as Lazy would be awesome
see:

• http://docs.mongoengine.org/apireference.html#mongoengine.fields.LazyReferenceField
• https://aiomotorengine.readthedocs.io/en/latest/modeling.html#embedding-vs-referencing

[huytuong010101]

any update on this?