Use SpillManager in AggregateExec and SortMergeJoinExec

[2010YOUY01]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

A new interface for spilling intermediate RecordBatches is proposed in #15355, it can be used in aggregate/SMJ's spilling logic.

Describe the solution you'd like

1. Look for occurrences of the following 3 functions, and replace with the equivalent function in SpillManager
   

   datafusion/datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill.rs

   Line 44 in 5210a2b

   pub(crate) fn read_spill_as_stream(

   
   

   datafusion/datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill.rs

   Line 60 in 5210a2b

   pub(crate) fn spill_record_batches(

   
   

   datafusion/datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill.rs

   Line 92 in 5210a2b

   pub fn spill_record_batch_by_size(

2. Remove (those with pub(crate)) and deprecate (with pub) the above 3 functions

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Additional context

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[2010YOUY01]

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