Better support for cmake 3.26 and Windows ARM64 (microsoft#15704)

### Description

In microsoft#8953 I introduced a change in our onnxruntime_mlas.cmake that it
enables "ASM_MASM" cmake language for all Windows build.
```cmake
enable_language(ASM_MASM)
```
Before the change, it is only enabled when onnxruntime_target_platform
equals to x64.

However, cmake 3.26 added a new language:  ASM_MARMASM.

According to cmake's manual,
ASM_MASM is for Microsoft Assembler
ASM_MARMASM is for Microsoft ARM Assembler. This one is new in cmake
3.26.

We should choose the right one according to
${onnxruntime_target_platform}.

Author: snnn

cmake/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -2,7 +2,9 @@
 # Licensed under the MIT License.
 
 # Minimum CMake required
+# TODO: actually we need cmake 3.26+ on Windows but QNN EP's build machine doesn't have it
 cmake_minimum_required(VERSION 3.24)
+
 cmake_policy(SET CMP0069 NEW)
 set(CMAKE_POLICY_DEFAULT_CMP0069 NEW)
 

cmake/adjust_global_compile_flags.cmake

@@ -222,7 +222,6 @@ endmacro()
 #Set global compile flags for all the source code(including third_party code like protobuf)
 #This section must be before any add_subdirectory, otherwise build may fail because /MD,/MT mismatch
 if (MSVC)
-  enable_language(ASM_MASM)
   if (CMAKE_GENERATOR_PLATFORM)
     # Multi-platform generator
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform ${CMAKE_GENERATOR_PLATFORM})
@@ -231,18 +230,37 @@ if (MSVC)
   endif()
   if (onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "ARM64")
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform "ARM64")
+    if(${CMAKE_VERSION} VERSION_GREATER_EQUAL "3.26.0")
+      enable_language(ASM_MARMASM)
+    else()
+      enable_language(ASM_MASM)
+    endif()
   elseif (onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "ARM64EC")
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform "ARM64EC")
+    if(${CMAKE_VERSION} VERSION_GREATER_EQUAL "3.26.0")
+      enable_language(ASM_MARMASM)
+    else()
+      enable_language(ASM_MASM)
+    endif()
   elseif (onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "ARM" OR CMAKE_GENERATOR MATCHES "ARM")
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform "ARM")
+    if(${CMAKE_VERSION} VERSION_GREATER_EQUAL "3.26.0")
+      enable_language(ASM_MARMASM)
+    else()
+      enable_language(ASM_MASM)
+    endif()
   elseif (onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "x64" OR onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "x86_64" OR onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "AMD64" OR CMAKE_GENERATOR MATCHES "Win64")
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform "x64")
+    enable_language(ASM_MASM)
   elseif (onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "Win32" OR onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "x86" OR onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "i386" OR onnxruntime_target_platform STREQUAL "i686")
     set(onnxruntime_target_platform "x86")
+    enable_language(ASM_MASM)
     if (NOT onnxruntime_BUILD_WEBASSEMBLY)
       message("Enabling SAFESEH for x86 build")
       set(CMAKE_ASM_MASM_FLAGS "${CMAKE_ASM_MASM_FLAGS} /safeseh")
     endif()
+  else()
+    message(FATAL_ERROR "Unknown CMAKE_SYSTEM_PROCESSOR: ${CMAKE_SYSTEM_PROCESSOR}")
   endif()